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A Tantric massage is about relaxation, being worshipped and pampered. This is the ideal place to practice stillness, feeling and awareness. You will be naked during the tantra massage. Your body will be massaged using a number of techniques, which stimulate the energy flow, sensitise the body and open the mind. As a result, you will feel deeply relaxed despite being awake.
The Tantra Massage follows a basic pattern. Your head, face, hands and feet, your yang side (back) as well as your yin side (front) will be massaged thoroughly. As the idea of Tantra is to touch the whole person, I also massage the genital area. However, the aim is not to sexualise the massage but to include ones sexual energy in the whole body massage.
In addition to this basic pattern, I follow my own intuition and creativity. This means that the massage may feel different every time.
There are no expectations, and no performance pressure. You will be guided into a very relaxing physical and mental state where your genitals are massaged. It will make you forget your normal day to day. With each touch, you can let go even deeper.
At the same time you experience the tantric ritualistic aspect in the sense that your manhood and your sexual power is being honoured and seen. The lingam massage is part of all tantric massages.
An erection during the massage is welcome as it is a sign of relaxation and enjoyment.
If you want to yes. I invite you to enjoy and be aware of your experience. Enjoy the massage without any pressure.
No. A Tantric massage is a one-way flow of energy, from me to you. The Tantric experience is about you and your pleasure. It is not about me. Please respect my boundaries. Touching of my arms and holding my hand is perfectly fine :)
No. You will receive a holistic tantric massage, which gives you a sensual erotic experience but not an invitation to a sexual exchange. This enables you to explore your physical experience in a new way free of expectations and objectives.
Yes, because this is normally caused by psychological factors and not physical. Dealing with it is for many just a question of practice. I gladly give you a non-judgemental, neutral and safe space.
I massage with only underwear on, and I will be topless if you are having the 2 hour tantric massage which includes body to body.
I only see clients above and beyond the age of 30. There is no upper age limit.
I only take bookings through my booking system on Fresha to secure a booking. However, if you would prefer to pay by cash on the day instead of card, that is fine.
I do not accept same or next day appointments. A week in advance is preferable, but please contact me.
I am a mobile massage therapist based in Hertfordshire. I come to your home.
Yes. Traditionally, the receiver in a tantric massage is naked. However, this is completely up to you and what you are comfortable doing.
The massage is given on the floor on a special mat that I will bring with me. Please make sure that your room is warm enough for your comfort.
I prefer the massage to be in silence, with music, so you can concentrate on the experience. Any questions you may have should be discussed before the massage.
I cover Hertfordshire and south Cambridgeshire. I will require a parking space close to your home. Please email me if you are unsure if I cover your area.